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Twin Flame Love BATH RECIPE!

Twin Flame Bath

It is said that Aphrodite, the goddess of love, sexuality, sensuality, and beauty took her Aphrodite Bath every spring to re-virginize herself, cleansing out old lovers and energies that no longer served her. I bless you in your Sacred Sexuality purification and bliss with this yummy bath blend.

I channeled the ingredients and instructions for this bath from Goddess Aphrodite herself, lol!


11 Rose petals or 11 roses from organic roses (the store bought roses usually are covered in pesticides so be careful)

11 Drops rose essential oil

11 Drops patchouli essential oil

11 Ounces of Himalayan salt

11 Ounces of  sea salt

11 Drops of heart-chakra flower essence of choice

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Wait until 11:11 am or pm. 11/11 and 11:11 is a Twin Flame number (find out why 11:11 is a Twin Flame number here)

Drop yourself into the bath slowly.
Chime your 432 hz tuning fork.
Light a pink, lavender, and white candle.
Make your Twin Flame prayer.
Repeat affirmations: “I am Twin Flame Love.”
“I am strong.”
“I am the beloved.” Etc.

You can even drop in a hunk of stone to activate your Twin Flame attraction. I like rhodochrosite for Twin Flame attraction but rose quartz can open the heart too. Just be careful and use it with amethyst to bring in discernment.

Twin Flame BLI$$ings!

Dr. Amanda Noelle is a Twin Flame Matchmaker helping single spiritual women attract their Twin Flame fast.  To see if you are a fit for one of her 6 or 9 month Twin Flame coaching programs, apply for your FREE Twin Flame Strategy Session here:


Twin Flame Counterfeit Signs: The Signs & Symptoms of a Fool’s Gold Union

So, you met the most amazing love stud, or potential partner, and you’re smitten. You are sure he’s your Twin Flame because everything is so magical and synchronistic.  You’ve never experienced a love like this.  Things progress and you feel so in love, you’re jumping for joy and it truly feels like he/she must be the one, your one true Twin Flame.

Then, wham, something sneaky happens and it pulls your world apart, and it pulls you two apart…but mainly, it pulls YOU apart!  Maybe it turns out that he’s not ready, he can’t commit, he’s got another relationship or has a wife and kids he won’t leave.  You feel stuck, like you’re struggling to stay afloat, because you’ve never loved like this before – it makes you feel like you are going crazy! At some point, he’s no longer in the picture.  Something is keeping you two apart… What is this crazy cosmic fate? Do you still have a chance, will he come back? Perhaps this could be a test from the universe? Like, he really could be your Twin and this is just some obstacle to overcome…

You likely already know that Twin Flames are simply a representation or reflection of ourselves, of own self-love. So, perhaps you can heal or fix something within yourself so he’ll come running back. Right?

So, you ask, “Is he my Twin Flame or  just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?” I hope to help you. I know it’s not an easy journey, and I have been there before. The Twin Flame Counterfeit is a type of karmic soulmate (you can read my blog What is a Karmic Soulmate? here) who is here to wake you up and plop you into your Twin Flame Awakening.  

Being able to know if the love between you and someone you deeply are attracted to and care about is real is obviously an important question to ask.  If you’re asking How Do I Know if Someone is My Twin Flame , you can click on the link to read that post to prep and support you for the information contained in this blog.

Unfortunately, there is no litmus test to know whether or not someone is your Twin Flame, and boy do I wish there were! I joke that it would be nice if there were a pee-in-a-cup lab test to tell if he was or was not your Twin Flame.  It would save us lots of time, pain, and suffering, and wouldn’t that be nice! I could also patent that product and make a lot of money, because we’ve all gone through this at one time or another. So many women come to me over and over again with the same problem and if the solution were so simple I’d be a multi-multi millionaire!

As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I commonly get asked “Is he my Twin Flame or  just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?” so I’ll attempt to respond with this with a checklist!

He (or she) is your Twin Flame if:

1) He’s still in the picture and you’ve seen each other’s glory and you’ve seen each other’s $h*t!

2) You’re willing to let him go, even if he is amazing, if he doesn’t treat you like the goddess you truly are

3) Your inner child is healed and has cleared abandonment and abuse traumas

4) You can surrender to the moment, and being apart doesn’t make you crazy, it feels like a lightness even though you may miss him

5) All (or at least most) of your love addictions are cleared and resolved

6) The love between you both is balanced, where both partners love each other equally, perhaps in different ways

7) Both partners are emotionally available, with the man and woman available to express fears, joys, sadness, etc

8) Both parties are on an Ascension Path and are focused on self-discovery, soul evolution, spiritual connection, and service

9) Neither partner is involved in a marriage or past relationship that is unresolved, which would leak sexual energy from the Twin Flame counterpart

10) Both members are energetically clear and take care of their own healing in body, mind and spirit. This may look different for each member (one may be a raw vegan and the other a meat eating body builder!) but both people have brought a lot of light into their bodies

11) Your partner aligns you to be in service, step further into self-love, self-empowerment, and the Sacred Union supports your growth


Signs of the Twin Flame Counterfeit:

1) Constant mulling over in your mind, “Is he my Twin Flame?”

2) Constant checking in with psychics and energy healers to make him want you back or being hopeful he’ll want you back if he has gone away

3) VERY likely he’s a TFC if he’s involved with another woman and hasn’t showed up for the relationship fully

4) Emotional unavailability on his part

5) Emotional over-availability on your part

6) Feeling insecure or unsafe around your partner but proceeding anyway

7) Jumping in quickly into the relationship without feeling safe within your self, your sacred sexuality, your finances, and your own power

8) Jumping into the relationship to avoid taking action and power over your own life

9) Using the relationship as a distraction that focuses your attention away from your career, spiritual mission, and being of service

10) You feel like your whole world would be turned upside-down if he decides to leave you/doesn’t come back

11) You don’t fully love yourself unless he loves you back (conditional self-love vs. unconditional self-love)

If reading the above list feels intense, deep breath, it’s all good!  It’s better to face the energy now, work on it, heal it, and step into self love sooner than later.  The longer you prolong your self-healing, the worse it gets.  Everything can be healed. You have support, you are lovable, even if one specific human you though might be your Twin Flame might not be.  Don’t beat yourself up, love yourself!  I know I beat myself up a lot when I went through my own Dark Night of the Soul with my Twin Flame Counterpart, so it’s not easy.  However, deep healing came through unconditional self-love and learning to be compassionate.  And each of us has certain karmas and possibly past life experiences to clear and heal.  There’s a reason for everything.

If you do feel stuck and want support, there is help. If you are wanting to attract your Twin Flame rather than a Twin Flame Counterfeit, please connect with me for a FREE Twin Flame Love Strategizing Session HERE. 

Many blessings, love and compassion on your journey!

Dr. Amanda Noelle

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Twin Flame Astrology Report! Twin Flame Love Activation on 11/11 and 11/12/13

Twin Flame Frequencies Rise Once Again on 11/11/13

Perhaps you noticed a slight, subtle, or even extreme elevation of  energies for your Twin Flame/Twin Soul soulmate that happened on 11/11/11, or 11/11/12?  I know I did. Two years back, on 11/11, I was celebrating the Twin Flame energies in Bali at a very special wedding. My beautiful, successful, tall, stunning blond Aussie friend, Anna, betrothed her Balinese Twin Flame, Budi.  He is a few inches shorter and a few years younger than she.  They met a few years ago while Budi was driving her around as a taxi driver on the back of his scooter. It was love at first sight, and though the odds were against this pair, the Twin Flame Love vibrations between them were palpable. Lucky me! Their Divine Union brought me the perfect excuse to return to Bali to enjoy Balinese barbecue, wedding cake, and chocolate eclairs on the same day! It was a beautiful celebration and I’ll never forget what a Twin Flame Balinese-Australian wedding is like.

The energetic boosts come again this year through the number eleven on 11/11 and 11:11 once again in 2013. 2013 is another special year, following the Shift year (12/21/2012 end of the Mayan Calendar, and the rise of the Divine Feminine – you can read more about it in my previous blog about 2012 as a Twin Flame number).  We are seeing that 2013 holds a new vibration of energy on the planet for Twin Flame opportunity – it’s an era of Twin Flame Love, 11/11 is a powerful activation time for Twin Flame Love indeed.

You are one with The One

But what does 11:11 mean? Wassup with all these 11s!? Eleven represents two separate lineages of independent ones:  for unity of two separate bodies standing parallel, side by side units that create the whole.  Thus, 11s represent the paradox of separation vs. Oneness.  As the Feminine is juxtaposed by the Masculine, Left by Right, and Spirit by Body/Earth, in the number 11, the veil is quite thin between the worlds.  Cut through the veil of Illusion, to see that there is no separation, we are all one. It’s all good!  It’s all God…Oneness!

Sacred Geometry of 11/11

It is through the sacred geometry of 11 11 that we feel harmonic frequencies.  Of balance, of the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine, and of Heaven and Earth.  It is through the sacred geometrical nature of 11 11 that an ancient and Divine nature of pure love is discovered. 11/11 is the energetics of the independence and interdependence coming together that create the Zero Point.

It’s about connection and upgrading to higher levels of consciousness

11/11 and 11:11 bring in frequencies of opportunities for us to connect with Oneness.  Though it is always time to feel this sense of Oneness, there is a collective upgrading on 11/11/12 through the subconscious. When we are conscious of the subconscious possibilities of the 11/11 or 11:11 sacred geometries, these potentials expand. The date of 11/11 holds particular vibrations that will activate you with your Higher Self through the purest forms of Twin Flame Love.

For 11/12/13 there is a progression, and in the UK/Australia it will be on December 11, in the States it will be November 12.  The digits when added up 11/12/13 2,3,4 and this is also a vibration of linear flow. the 11/12/13 date is good to bring in a clearing and healing around the masculine, of linear structures in business, relationships, legal arrangements, housing etc.  A clearing or burning at this time is an ideal way to release the old and bring in the new Masculine alignment.

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Sacred Snake and the Rise of Kundalini

CLICK HERE for a Twin Flame kundalini meditation.  Sacred sexuality through Twin Flame union is one of the fastest ways to tantric bliss enlightenment.  Kundalini is primal Universe God/Goddess energy that rises and falls up and down the spine in a wave like motion from Divine Father and Earth Gaian Mother (Yin/Yang).  These energies from Father Sky and Mother Earth mate within us through electro and biomagnetic fields within our spine and spinal fluid.

The 11 is also represented through the spines of the Sacred Union lovers.  The kundalini rises up not only like an S, but spirals up like the DNA spiral, connecting the spines of the Twin Flame Lovers. Truly, it is the weaving of all chakras held within the spine, back and forth, back and forth, between the lovers that allows the 11 – parallel lovers – to become 1.  So, in a sense, 1+1=1, so the 2 disappears; thus in a sense 2 becomes a 0, as two Twin Flame Lovers create a Zero Point Union.  Also, 1+1 can = 3, in the sense that two lovers coming together create a sacred third energy of Divine Union Love, and even conception of a child is possible.  So, 2012′s 11/11 is like a numeric orgy, holding all sorts of magical potentials where the reflection of 2 becomes both zero and one.  When duality becomes infinity and emptiness, we know we have arrived at a celestial stairway to Heaven!  Indeed, the date of 11/11 can be a powerful kundalini activator for Twin Flame couples, or for those calling in their Twin Flame, when used with intention in meditation.

I recommend incorporating sacred sexuality or sacred sensuality into your ritual in some way on 11/11, and whether or not you peak into orgasmic bliss, allow an orgasmic 11 energy to ride up your spine in a Twin Flame Love meditation.

Benefitting from the 11-11 frequencies

Twin Flame 11/12/13

The potentials of 11/11 expand through intention, passion, and ritual.  The more you intentionally tap into the potentials of 11/11 or 2012, the more it becomes real.  Belief is powerful, especially thorugh the collective unconscious, even through the dream space.  It is no wonder that societies create societal beliefst together, such as group fears, devestations, or triumphs.

Over the past 3,000+ years, there have been distorted consciousnesses that have blocked our true nature as humans to love from the Twin Flame perspective. These energies have been very deeply entrenched into our culture, systems, philosophies and psychologies. They are anything but true.

The 11/11 portals opening are allowing our real Twin Flame relationship potential to replace these patterns. It holds natural Aphrodisiac Awakening or Aphrodite Awakening energy which is the powerful Feminine energy flowing through the kundalini channels awakening the Masculine.

As we are here to align with Divine Truth, 11/11 holds the medicine for triumph over issues such as:

  • Codependency
  • Feelings of loneliness, emptiness
  • Addictive patterns, love addiction
  • Being addicted to being a love-savior to everyone but yourself
  • The belief that only a certain chosen population can have a Twin Flame
  • Consciousness that you as an Earth Angel aren’t allowed to have your Twin Flame
  • Mentality that the happiness from Twin Flame coupling is greedy
  • Self-negation rather than self-love
  • Distorted, disharmonious, energies on Earth

For most of us, our ability to find our “other half” has been deactivated for thousands of years. Yet in 2012, especially on the 11/11 awakening, we will feel this paradigm being shifted and repaired to one that reflects the Sacred.    For the Dark Forces (truly, our own shadowy consciousness) that has controlled the Earth for millennia, has fallen, and the Twin Flame Divine Reality is our birthright.

Twin Flame 11/12/13 and DNA

You hold the 11/11 patterns within you.  In fact the codex of your DNA is based on the 11, or the Roman numeral of II, which is a distorted version or limited version of the 11.  The two strands of DNA that we are given are meant to be aligned so they become 1, then 2, then eventually 11 and 12. 11/12/13 will thus be a day of bringing the Light vibration of the DNA to the lower density of the 3rd dimension on Earth. The 11, 12, 13 represents flow, change, and steady transmutation.  It also bridges the 1 and the 3 through oneness versus bi-polarity.  So Oneness of the universe is intrinsically connected to the duality and third dimensions on Earth as represented through 11/12/13.

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DNA is in fact simply a code of consciousness, it is a reflection of your consciousness.  You have as many strands as you are holding through your consciousness, and this can always be changed. It is malleable.

You do not have to worry, Twin Flame seekers, there is nothing to do in specific on 11/11. Becoming aware of the energy and being open to it with intention is a great idea! However, it can bring in a fun passionate excitement that con expedite your Twin Flame Love arrival.  The ray of energy is meant to serve, excite, and inspire you on the the 11/11, 11:11, and 11/12/13 in 2013!

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Music Video for Emily – Ladies, You Can Be the Next Emily!

Music Video for Emily 

Celebrating the New Age Man who knows what women want!

Ladies, these are the keys of what to look for in a man:

Shameless unconditional love.  Heart. Confidence.  A little nerdy never hurts either…

This young man is lightyears ahead of other men who hold back, paint a facade that lacks vulnerability and emotional expression.  Sure, he may seem extreme. He’s crazy in love with his sweet Emily!  But mostly notice this: it’s obvious how HUGE his heart is! I work as a Professional Soulmating Fairy so I have my opinion.  I believe this Bryan Adams kids holds the secret to understanding

Bryan Adams Twin Flame LoveIf you are a soulmate seeking woman, ask yourself: How relationship ready is the man you’re dating? Can he cash it all in for his heart, for yours?  Can he express his true desires and wants for you? Ladies, this is what to look for in the vibration of love: a man who is committed fully to his own heart, and who wants to share it with the right lucky lady (in this young man’s case, Emily).  If you’re stuck in unrequited love, or with someone who cannot say I love you, just play Music Video for Emily on replay a few times and it will energetically reprogram your subconscious and align you with Divine love from the Masculine!

Silly, but it works! Try it…watch the video several times and already notice your opening to the Divine Masculine:) Another video I suggest watching to help inspire you to live a true love fairytale is my video:

Work MAGIC to Manifest your Twin Flame Fairytale!

Bryan Adams: He’s a man-hero of LOVE….

Back to the Music Video for Emily topic… Our beautiful serenader has no shame, a sign of Twin Flame love–he doesn’t care what others think! That’s the New Age Era Man: he holds the light of the Twin Flame frequency for his partner. Thank you Bryan!  And thank you to the other men who are taking the plunge and are stepping into your hearts and sharing it so relentlessly.  Thank you thank you thank you!  I wrote a blog about the fact that 2012 is the year of Twin Flame Love and it’s happening because of brave hearts of men and women like you.

Emily is a lucky girl! You can be next…

It’s so obvious that every woman deserves this type of unconditional love, deserves to be honored, cherished, even serenaded!  Doesn’t every lady deserve her Music Video for Emily?

But how do we find it?  It starts with self-care, self-love, and having a spiritual path so you can heal the scars and wounds from childhood and teen years that cause us to block our hearts from our Twin Flame or soulmate.  Sign up for my newsletter and keep up to date on the latest tips of how to bag your Twin Flame soulmate dream guy or gal!

Thank you to this brave young soul, for you are creating a new paradigm for other men to moedel (OK the video was a bit extreme but the energy was great!).  Thanks to all you amazing men who support us with your brilliant shameless light; for you are a true holder for the Divine Feminine and you are a brave soul!

Gals, let’s keep rewarding these guys with some love and encouragement, and let them know that their love and gestures are needed and appreciated. Let’s all be as lucky as Emily and receive the love and adoration we deserve from our soulmates, partners, Twin Flames, or even just a good YouTube serenader.



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