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He’s tall, healthy, hot, spiritual, self-employed, good with kids, open to having children, likes to travel, loves intimacy, tantra, he eats a plant-based diet, donates to charity, is in touch with the Feminine… The list goes on… Is this you?
Using the Law of Attraction in combination with a little elbow grease, you can go after and get the whole list. Or even effortlessly receive it. But let’s be honest: sometimes getting the whole package feels impossible. And so we manifest men who are missing key items from the list.
Why is it that we can get so blocked by our own stories, resistances, and self-esteem issues, especially when it comes to attraction the “who package” in a relationship?
The classic case I see as a Twin Flame Matchmaker in women who are new to working with the Law of Attraction to manifest a Twin Flame is that they will pick a man who is only half or part of what is on their desires list. Are you vegetarian and you meet amazing men, except for that one tiny detail: you can’t see yourself marrying a carnivore, and they are meat-lovin’ men? Or perhaps you are a spiritual woman, super into healing, energy work, consciousness, yoga, green juice, etc and everything is perfect, except for the fact that he totally doesn’t get your spiritual path?
“Wassup with this!?” you wonder, “Why do I keep attracting that one little thing that is a BIG deal breaker every time I date someone new!?” I’d hate to see you give up and throw away all of your love, beauty, and bliss potential because you are attracting the wrong men (at least in part!) because the Law of Attraction is only half-working for you…
We gotta first ask: Why do you keep attracting these love-limits? In the Big Leap by Gay Hendricks, Hendricks talks about the “upper limit problem,” ULPs, that are sorta like a metabolic set-point of how much we can love. So when you’re manifesting that 98% perfect soulmate except for the 2% which is a total deal-breaker, it’s like “Fuuuuuu%ck, why me!?” Right? But really that 2% issue is the thing you’re manifesting to keep you safely away from love. What?! Why would you ever want to block yourself from love? Because to be honest, we humans are all freaked by love, it’s our nature. We ARE love, we deserve love, and God loves us much. But ironically this is the scariest thing to our human nature – to accept this gift. We create all kinds of crazy ways to block love, including finding people who are 98% there, but who eat several pounds of meat when we’re wanting a vegetarian, or someone who is perfect in all ways but who can’t afford to pay his bills let alone be your future baby daddy. Help!
You can have what you want, you just gotta be willing to receive it, my love. Be willing to receive the love that you are! As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I specialize in helping women dissolve their subconscious love limits and turn them into love magnets. It really friggin’ works. I’ve done my healing and coaching work on women and in some cases, within hours they’ve manifested their Twin Flame. That’s hot! And it’s delightful to watch every time (especially when I get invited to the wedding, like I’m going to next month!).
I have a sad-to-succsexy story to share! It’ll melt your heart:
I once worked with a client named Laura who thought she’d found her Twin Flame. Everything was perfect… except for one tiny detail: her soulmate was a total vegan and wanted to raise his future children vegan, and he judged her for her eating choices. While she liked living healthy, she’d always enjoyed the occasional piece of fish, organic cheese, or free-range chicken, and she wasn’t wanting to give it up. Plus she’d always wanted to share her favorite family recipes with her future offspring. Initially, it was like everything was perfect for Laura, except that one tiny not-so-cheesy detail, until…
Mr. Vegan Boy suddenly went back to the East Coast for a visit and reconnected with his ex girlfriend. He then dumped Laura, this beautiful woman, shortly after returning but not before sleeping with her one last time. Classy, right? Together, Laura and I did some deep healing work and counseling over the heartache. In our healing work, we realized that God/dess had given her the sign early on so that she could see that he was her perfect Twin Flame stepping stone, the TFC (Counterfeit) to lead her to her true Twin. He’d opened her heart (and smashed it a bit, but it took that to tenderize it!), and she realized how badly she wanted love. Further, she realized that she absolutely needed it from someone who shared her healthy lifestyle with a little bit of fun, cheese, and white meat… It was her style.
Guess what happened next? Only a month later, she fell into the arms of her Twin Flame Aaron at the farmers market, and there was no looking back! Aaron’s a healthy “pescetarian” as he calls it – he eats fish and dairy in small amounts – so they have a ball cooking together! They are now happily married, pregnant, and Laura enjoys their healthy lifestyle without feeling judged for eating her way.
Don’t settle for less Goddess, you are worth the WHOLE package! It’s easy to follow the wrongful thinking that settling for less gets us ahead. Wrong. Settling for less is the harder road. Because your soul knows that you’re worth more, and so you’ll align with potential partners who aren’t really cut out for you in the long-term. You’d best decide what you’re truly worth and what you truly want, and the Universe will bring it to you if you step forth to receive it!
When you let go of what’s not working, the Universe hears your commitment to self and rewards you with a true energy match. You can’t stay in a settling-for-less energy with a karmic soulmate trying to force it. If it’s not an easy fit in the first few dates, let it go, grow, and try again with the right partner. Screen dates before going on them to save you time and heartache. Unless you’re able to control your attraction to people, what’s the point of getting your heart set on someone you know isn’t a fit?
- Don’t settle for less because you don’t have to! It won’t serve you, your beloved, or the world
- You can manifest that whole picture by honoring your desires
- Don’t date men who aren’t a fit unless you’re dating for dating’s sake
- Write down your list and stick to it
- Circle your must-haves on the list that are deal-breakers (I don’t think having brown hair would be a deal breaker, but being spiritually awake and financially grounded is, for example)
- Know that you’re worth it!
Good luck lady, you are the Twin Flame, now go find your match. IF you want help from me as The Twin Flame Matchmaker, apply for your FREE Twin Flame Strategy Session with me here:
A karmic soulmate is a person that shares some sort of karmic attachment, energetic tie, or psychic agreement with you. It may be based on a past life, or have energetics bleeding through from past lives. There are all kinds of karmic relationships, and some are romantic and others are Platonic (non-erotic love). There is usually an intensity common to karmic soulmate relationships, regardless of their romantic or Platonic nature. It can be a good feeling of intensity or love, or an unpleasant one. Here are the top five signs of the karmic soulmate.
1) He or she feels unusually familiar from the start
2) There is a strong attraction from the start, and perhaps even a confusing one that can be both push-pull, or even a repulsion type of attraction
3) There are huge lessons to be learned with the karmic soulmate
4) You have had a past life or multiple past lives together
5) There are non-romantic elements to the karmic soulmate lessons, such as business, sexuality lessons, finances, self-worth, beauty, etc.
Not all karmic soulmates are romantic agreements. ”Soulmates” are simply people Spirit attracts to you to teach you a lesson to help your soul evolution. This can be a business soulmate, parent, child, friend, etc. Romantic karmic soulmates often hold an intensity brought through from past lives that can bring up a lot of childhood pain, abuse, neglect, fear, abandonment issues. There certainly can often be heartbreak associated with romantic karmic soulmates! The grief brought in by a karmic soulmate is not meant to be punishment or retribution; it’s meant to be healed and cleared. It is helpful to get healing and professional support if you meet a karmic soulmate or Twin Flame Counterfeit if there is deep heartbreak. Twin Flames and Twin Souls are in a sense always karmic soulmates to each other but in a healthy, wholesome, and supportive way. Regardless of whether or not the Twin Flame is real or false, it feels like Twin Flame Love, which is your own Twin Flame Love! Twin Flame separation and Twin Flame anxiety can be downright painful! To heal from a karmic soulmate, you need to end the attachment and contract agreement, which can be done either as a conscious and empowered decision, in meditation, or with a Twin Flame expert/intuitive.
Dr. Amanda Noelle, Twin Flame Matchmaker, helps single spiritual women swiftly manifest their Twin Flame.
So, you met the most amazing love stud, or potential partner, and you’re smitten. You are sure he’s your Twin Flame because everything is so magical and synchronistic. You’ve never experienced a love like this. Things progress and you feel so in love, you’re jumping for joy and it truly feels like he/she must be the one, your one true Twin Flame.
Then, wham, something sneaky happens and it pulls your world apart, and it pulls you two apart…but mainly, it pulls YOU apart! Maybe it turns out that he’s not ready, he can’t commit, he’s got another relationship or has a wife and kids he won’t leave. You feel stuck, like you’re struggling to stay afloat, because you’ve never loved like this before – it makes you feel like you are going crazy! At some point, he’s no longer in the picture. Something is keeping you two apart… What is this crazy cosmic fate? Do you still have a chance, will he come back? Perhaps this could be a test from the universe? Like, he really could be your Twin and this is just some obstacle to overcome…
You likely already know that Twin Flames are simply a representation or reflection of ourselves, of own self-love. So, perhaps you can heal or fix something within yourself so he’ll come running back. Right?
So, you ask, “Is he my Twin Flame or just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?” I hope to help you. I know it’s not an easy journey, and I have been there before. The Twin Flame Counterfeit is a type of karmic soulmate (you can read my blog What is a Karmic Soulmate? here) who is here to wake you up and plop you into your Twin Flame Awakening.
Being able to know if the love between you and someone you deeply are attracted to and care about is real is obviously an important question to ask. If you’re asking How Do I Know if Someone is My Twin Flame , you can click on the link to read that post to prep and support you for the information contained in this blog.
Unfortunately, there is no litmus test to know whether or not someone is your Twin Flame, and boy do I wish there were! I joke that it would be nice if there were a pee-in-a-cup lab test to tell if he was or was not your Twin Flame. It would save us lots of time, pain, and suffering, and wouldn’t that be nice! I could also patent that product and make a lot of money, because we’ve all gone through this at one time or another. So many women come to me over and over again with the same problem and if the solution were so simple I’d be a multi-multi millionaire!
As a Twin Flame Matchmaker, I commonly get asked “Is he my Twin Flame or just my Twin Flame Counterfeit?” so I’ll attempt to respond with this with a checklist!
He (or she) is your Twin Flame if:
1) He’s still in the picture and you’ve seen each other’s glory and you’ve seen each other’s $h*t!
2) You’re willing to let him go, even if he is amazing, if he doesn’t treat you like the goddess you truly are
3) Your inner child is healed and has cleared abandonment and abuse traumas
4) You can surrender to the moment, and being apart doesn’t make you crazy, it feels like a lightness even though you may miss him
5) All (or at least most) of your love addictions are cleared and resolved
6) The love between you both is balanced, where both partners love each other equally, perhaps in different ways
7) Both partners are emotionally available, with the man and woman available to express fears, joys, sadness, etc
8) Both parties are on an Ascension Path and are focused on self-discovery, soul evolution, spiritual connection, and service
9) Neither partner is involved in a marriage or past relationship that is unresolved, which would leak sexual energy from the Twin Flame counterpart
10) Both members are energetically clear and take care of their own healing in body, mind and spirit. This may look different for each member (one may be a raw vegan and the other a meat eating body builder!) but both people have brought a lot of light into their bodies
11) Your partner aligns you to be in service, step further into self-love, self-empowerment, and the Sacred Union supports your growth
1) Constant mulling over in your mind, “Is he my Twin Flame?”
2) Constant checking in with psychics and energy healers to make him want you back or being hopeful he’ll want you back if he has gone away
3) VERY likely he’s a TFC if he’s involved with another woman and hasn’t showed up for the relationship fully
4) Emotional unavailability on his part
5) Emotional over-availability on your part
6) Feeling insecure or unsafe around your partner but proceeding anyway
7) Jumping in quickly into the relationship without feeling safe within your self, your sacred sexuality, your finances, and your own power
8) Jumping into the relationship to avoid taking action and power over your own life
9) Using the relationship as a distraction that focuses your attention away from your career, spiritual mission, and being of service
10) You feel like your whole world would be turned upside-down if he decides to leave you/doesn’t come back
11) You don’t fully love yourself unless he loves you back (conditional self-love vs. unconditional self-love)
If reading the above list feels intense, deep breath, it’s all good! It’s better to face the energy now, work on it, heal it, and step into self love sooner than later. The longer you prolong your self-healing, the worse it gets. Everything can be healed. You have support, you are lovable, even if one specific human you though might be your Twin Flame might not be. Don’t beat yourself up, love yourself! I know I beat myself up a lot when I went through my own Dark Night of the Soul with my Twin Flame Counterpart, so it’s not easy. However, deep healing came through unconditional self-love and learning to be compassionate. And each of us has certain karmas and possibly past life experiences to clear and heal. There’s a reason for everything.
If you do feel stuck and want support, there is help. If you are wanting to attract your Twin Flame rather than a Twin Flame Counterfeit, please connect with me for a FREE Twin Flame Love Strategizing Session HERE.
Many blessings, love and compassion on your journey!
Dr. Amanda Noelle
What are the Signs of the Twin Flame? As a Twin Flame Matchmaker , I have refined a list of qualities that I commonly see in Twin Flame couples. These are the attributes that are required for a Twin Flame to embody before she meets her Twin Flame counterpart.
In my experience, pretty much all of these items on the list have to be integrated in a woman’s life for her to be in a Twin Flame vibration. All of us must be shiny and bright for our Twin Flame to further ignite!
Note, this list is not meant to intimidate or exclude anyone; please don’t worry if you don’t have everything on the list! It will all come naturally, and with intention…It can take some time and spiritual-love elbow grease to get it all together, but know that you can be soulmate ready for your Twin Flame in the near future. I have watched even the most desperate, depressed, and disappointed people go from solo to soulmated through a deep dose of self-love and soul-awakening almost overnight.
If you haven’t already, before we get to the list of Twin Flame Love Signs watch my video Caution, FIRE!!! Twin Flame Signs and Symptoms Debunked
Twin Flame Love Signs Pre-Encounter of the Divine Union:
1) She has awoken on her spiritual path and goes 100% for soul evolution and planetary healing
2) She has fully awoken to her Higher Self and leads her life from the Higher Self aspect while integrating human desires
3) She looks at every experience and circumstance in her life as a gift or lesson to be learned
4) She takes full responsibility for every experience and circumstance, and releases “victim” consciousness
5) There is a deep sense of gratitude in her life
6) She feels a sense of being in love with all things
7) She has forgiven all forms of abuse, punishment, and neglect, including that which she has done to herself
8) She enjoys her work and has a sense of purpose or meaning in life (she’s on a spiritual mission and her career often aligns with this)
9) She isn’t afraid of being judged by others for being different because she knows she is different and that everyone is unique, that this is to be celebrated not feared
10) She has a very strong sense of self-empowerment and knows what she can do with it
11) She feels attractive, sensual, and has healed her relationship to sexuality
In summary, it’s all about self-love and self-empowerment and seeing things from a Higher Self clarity. You are ready to meet a Twin Flame when these pieces are all integrated, and it usually takes people a few years once on a spiritual awakening path to be ready for the Twin Flame.
Most people do not meet a Twin Flame without going through some challenges, hard work, and yet eventually it gets easier and easier to the point that you feel so high and on top of life that you want to share your bliss with your other half.
There are so many different ways to heal yourself to get into a Twin Flame Love vibration, and usually clients who come to me use a combination of healing techniques to get the job done. That’s the beauty of being holistic healer. I even integrate nutrition therapies and past life regression therapies at times when it’s helpful (Sign up for my Soulmate Diet Ebook, FREE on the home page to the right.) enter ).
So many love and blessings and bliss on your Twin Flame awakening path!